Is bravery a learned trait?
I never stopped to consider this question until recently. I was the child who was scared of the dark,
and through my teenage years would beg my younger sister to accompany me up the
stairs of my family’s spooky-at-night farmhouse with far too many windows. It should come as no surprise that I don’t
consider myself brave. Our oldest son
doesn’t fit the brave demographic either.
At six-years-old he is scared to ride at more than a snail’s pace on his
bike. We’re wondering if he’ll ever
graduate from training wheels! But Kenny
and I found ourselves at the amusement park yesterday, standing in line for the
Mind Eraser ride. This perfect circle would take us in a series of loops and
leave us hanging upside down at the top of the loop. At just 48” tall (the minimum height to
ride), Kenny was by far the shortest and youngest in line. The woman in front of us commented on Kenny’s
bravery. This comment made me think of a
recent comment a fellow mom made about my bravery. Could it be?
Could we chickens really have some bravery in us?
I’ve always thought of the Bible heroes I learned about in
Sunday School as innately brave; Daniel and the lion’s den, David and Goliath,
Easter and the King of Persia, Mary and the Christmas story. These people must have all been born with
super-human levels of bravery to serve God in a way that still has us reading
about them today, right? I’m starting to
question that premise. These people had
their faults and downfalls. They, like us,
were trying to make their way through difficult circumstances presented by an
imperfect world. There is no doubt they
exhibited bravery, but I no longer think of them as being born with freakishly
high levels of bravery. Instead, I’m
starting to see them as filled-to-the-brim with faith. Their faith in God fueled their ability to be
brave. Their faith in God provided them
the means to change the world.
Could faith and therefore bravery be a muscle that can be strengthened
upon exercise? Having faith in God is
the first step, which many of us have.
But having faith that could kill a giant or mother the Son of God doesn’t
just happen. It comes by exercising
faith daily; by stretching to practice faith in a way that is new and makes us
uncomfortable. It’s not easy or
comfortable, which is why the world isn’t filled with David’s and Mary’s. But the thought that I could be a David or
Mary is both encouraging and challenging.
God has a history of using the most ordinary of people to do
extraordinary things. That certainly
makes me highly qualified, along with a few of youJ. I better brush up on my slingshot skills!
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