There’s been a voice developing in my head over the past year. This voice takes shards of my day and polishes and smoothes until it’s something I don’t mind putting in my window....souvenirs of my motherhood adventure. A toddler meltdown over a popsicle that in the moment makes me want to bang my head against the refrigerator door turns into a funny story that reminds me how far we’ve come from middle of the night feedings. And when I really tune into the voice, I often find insight into God and His love for me. This blog is the recording studio for that voice. My hope is that the souvenirs of my day serve as entertainment and encouragement to those of you who are banging your head against a refrigerator door. And that you’re inspired to find a voice of your own that turns these trying moments into treasured souvenirs.

Tuesday, December 30, 2014

Overcoming PHSD (Post Holiday Stress Disorder)


Ahh the joys of post-holiday days.  It’s so fun to wean three boys (not to mention myself) off of a lifestyle of candycanes at 9AM, no naps, and late evenings filled with an endless dessert buffet and pop!  We had a wonderful week in Iowa celebrating Christ’s birth, and arrived home yesterday…..to reality.  The tree is still up, but the sugar has been collected and hidden, to be rationed conservatively over the coming months.  No one likes this change.  Tantrums and punishments have been making frequent appearances.  Legos have been confiscated, sticks of gum thrown away, all in an attempt to rediscover the kind, sweet boys that used to live here.  


We’re starting to see glimmers of our pre-holiday children, and despite the time of year or individual attitudes, our three boys stick together like glue.  Kenny had his Legos confiscated after refusing to help shovel the driveway.  Jacob couldn’t bear for Kenny to go to sleep without toys, so he snuck his beloved Transformer Rescuebots Police Station into Kenny’s room after bedtime.  In another match of brothers versus parents, Jacob had his gum taken away.  John couldn’t stand the thought of his brother suffering so and generously shared his gum ABC style (as in Already Been Chewed).  


It’s hard not to smile and show my glee at the deep bond they have with one another.  And it makes me wonder what stories they’ll tease us with when they’re adults and we’re reunited as a family.  I suspect hiking, roadtrips and outrageous boy stunts will top the list.  We’ll of course retaliate by feeding their children candy canes after breakfast:-).  
                        Grandpa caught in the act of serving gumballs for breakfast!

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