There’s been a voice developing in my head over the past year. This voice takes shards of my day and polishes and smoothes until it’s something I don’t mind putting in my window....souvenirs of my motherhood adventure. A toddler meltdown over a popsicle that in the moment makes me want to bang my head against the refrigerator door turns into a funny story that reminds me how far we’ve come from middle of the night feedings. And when I really tune into the voice, I often find insight into God and His love for me. This blog is the recording studio for that voice. My hope is that the souvenirs of my day serve as entertainment and encouragement to those of you who are banging your head against a refrigerator door. And that you’re inspired to find a voice of your own that turns these trying moments into treasured souvenirs.

Tuesday, July 15, 2014

The Universal Language of Bubbles


We’re a go-go family, hiking, playing at parks, swimming.  By the end of summer (who am I kidding, by two weeks into summer), I’m feeling like a cruise director…planning one fun activity after another.  Of course all of these fun activities revolve around bringing glee to my children.  After all, we live in one of the richest counties in the nation.  The biggest problem faced by me and my peers is not getting into a premiere vacation bible school program (not really, but you get the idea).  So it should come as no surprise that reading the book Seven by Jen Hatmaker has rocked my happy little boat a bit.  It’s hard to be horrified by someone accidentally taking my son’s navy blue Crocs at the splash pad (picture navy blue Crocs everywhere!) when I have two more pairs his size at home and a Burmese refugee child in Denver is wearing his one pair of holey shoes (and not the kind you wear to church).  

Over the last two weeks a group of women and I have completed the Clothing and Possessions chapters of the book together.  We purged enough stuff to outfit multiple families.  Our fearless leader found an organization who worked directly with refugees and so I found myself hauling an SUV full of excess along with my mother-in-law and three boys to the other side of the tracks so to speak.  

We arrived at the church that served as the organization’s meeting place a bit early.  The building had yet to be unlocked, and our liaison had yet to arrive, but a group of Burmese children stood around the building waiting and beyond excited by our arrival.  We gingerly exited our caravan of goodwill.  A few introductions were made by the bravest of our group, but there was a general feeling of awkwardness…..until one smart mama who goes nowhere without bubbles took action (we Highlands Ranch moms know how to rollJ).  Suddenly, the language barrier was broken as bubbles started to float through the air.  Children of different native tongues found a common language as they popped bubbles with glee, unaware of how different their lives were.  We worked together as one big team to unload the cars and organize all the excess in the church basement.  Then my family loaded up in our shiny white car and drove off….to the science museum of course (How could I deprive them of their daily glee?).  

I think the experience left a bigger imprint on me than my boys.  I’m left with the realization of how important it is to cross barriers and serve those in need as part of our everyday life.  I want my boys to feel comfortable around all people, not just those that have a similar lifestyle.  Adjusting my cruise schedule and stocking up on bubbles might be the key to making this realization a reality.  (And being shown up by a more prepared-for-fun mama is only a small part of my motivation;-).

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